Wednesday, October 21, 2026
“For I was hungry,
and you fed me. I was thirsty, and you gave me a drink. I was a stranger, and
you invited me into your home.”
(Matthew 25:43, New Living Translation)
I bet you didn’t know
that November 23rd to the 29th is “Talk to a Stranger Week,” “to challenge Canadians to get more chatty on
the bus, at the dog park, in passing on the street.” Apparently, it is
becoming a movement around the world, known by many names, inspiring and urging us to be more deliberately
connected to each other. “A growing number of places have started
campaigns, events and programs to kickstart those conversations.” It is so easy for so many to hide behind secret and anonymous Twitter accounts and the like and
be cowardly judgmental, nasty and critical with no accountability. But this movement
towards strangers offers a healthier and more personal solution to the isolation,
the loneliness and the alienation that exists all around us. “Around the
world, there’s a sense that humanity generally needs a neighbourly tune-up.”
A simple “Watcha doing?” can start
an interesting conversation with a stranger. One is not trying to start a
life-long friendship necessarily but simply it is a way of expanding one’s
connections and thereby broaden one’s understanding and appreciation of others. We may be pleasantly surprised to find our
biases, prejudices, opinions and assumptions melt away because we have taken a
little extra time to have a conversation with someone we didn’t know before. I have
worked hard to get to know names and some of the stories of the people and even
their dogs in our apartment building. It has helped me feel part of a
community. I hope that I am also giving something back in return.
We may never invite strangers into
our homes like Jesus said. Sadly, we live in dangerous times when there are unscrupulous
people who might try to take advantage of our friendliness. Yet, this caveat
does not exempt us from showing kindness, compassion, understanding, tolerance and
patience towards strangers around us. Life is too short to waste it on
judgment, criticism, hatred, prejudice and exclusionism. It bothers me immensely how immigrants are generally
being treated here in North America, as some sort of scourge almost. It is
unwarranted by and large. If you get to know their stories just a little bit,
they are as every bit like “us” as anyone. “In real life, strangers are far
less dangerous, significantly more honest and much happier to chat with us than
we believe – and than crime TV and social media suggest.”
“Don’t forget to show hospitality to strangers, for some who have
done this have entertained angels without realizing it!” (Hebrews 13:2)
Jesus, of course, is the “angel” in the room in his own parable. What we do for
others, we have done for him. So, smile and say hello, at least; ask how they
are doing if you get a chance; learn their names; shake their hand, perhaps;
hear their story if they wish to share it. Just be Jesus to one and all!
Prayer:
O God, our for-ever Friend,
you have opened your Kingdom to all and invited us to enjoy your Sacred Hospitality.
You grace us with your Love without discrimination or preference. Help us, O Lord, to reach out to others with the
same focus as Jesus Christ, to love with compassion and righteousness any and
all who cross our path. May we see Jesus in the face of each and every stranger.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.